Saturday, June 26, 2004
Meeet her first with a passionate hug. Then lightly kiss her neck and then move around to her lips. Make the first few kisses light ones, no tongue, and then look deep into her eyes before touching lips and slowly opening your mouth for a light touch of your tongue. Then let her take over.
getting better
-Forget about how many people he's kissed before. Remember he's kissing you now.
-Explore different types of kissing. A french kiss becomes more natural as you get used to it. Still, alternate with simple, sweet pecks.
-Don'w worry about what to do with your hands. Hold his or put your arms around his waist, neck or even place your hands on his cheek (save that move for special ocassions). See what feels most comfortable!
-And finally, Practice, practice! Try out different types of kisses on the bathroom mirror or a pillow. (Just make sure the door's locked first)
The more you kiss, the better you get!
-Explore different types of kissing. A french kiss becomes more natural as you get used to it. Still, alternate with simple, sweet pecks.
-Don'w worry about what to do with your hands. Hold his or put your arms around his waist, neck or even place your hands on his cheek (save that move for special ocassions). See what feels most comfortable!
-And finally, Practice, practice! Try out different types of kisses on the bathroom mirror or a pillow. (Just make sure the door's locked first)
The more you kiss, the better you get!
spice of life (for the bored)
Now, if you're bored and want to spice things up a little, here are a few suggestions:
Lightly nibble the bottom lip or neck
Kiss other parts of the body (some of these are FULL of nerves!) like the neck, ear, and chin
Enter a little tongue into the picture (remember, less is more!) and try some Frenching or playfully licking the perimeter of the lips, the neck, or from the neck to the lips
Be sure to use your hands, too! Run your fingers through your partner's hair or place your hands lovingly on the side of her face
Kiss your sweetheart someplace unexpected or from right out of the blue
Give Eskimo kisses (rub noses) for a sweet change of pace
Remember that you should always have fresh breath and clean teeth, too. Poor hygiene is a total turn-off!
As far as Frenching goes, keep in mind that it can be a hard kiss to master so you most likely won't be wonderful at it overnight but with practice and a patient partner, your skills will improve fairly quickly. First of all,
remember that less is more and 2 things can happen if you use your tongue too much; 1. Your tongue gets tired or 2. Your partner gets tired of your tongue. So, if you're, say, in a heavy make-out session, French kiss off and on for a minute or a minute and a half and then quit for a couple
minutes and bring your tongue back. You really just don't want things to get old. Don't deep-throat your lover, either. Most of the time you'll only use the tip to the middle of your tongue and it will extend to about the middle of your sweetheart's mouth. This way no one is strained or gagged and it's enjoyable for both parties. Move your tongue up and down, side to side, clockwise, counter-clockwise, where ever it feels best or play "tongue hockey" with your honey (not tonsil hockey!). Open your mouth a little wider than you would for a normal kiss but don't gape it. And be sure not to leave your mouths open and play with each other's tongues for too long of a time; trust me, it can feel weird. Sometimes surprise your mate and when she thinks you're going to French and begins to stick out her tongue, kiss her tongue instead. Also, don't
move your tongue around too fast in your better half's mouth. Keep things slow and sensual, at least at the beginning of each kissing session and/or until you are
better prepared to speed things up.
Butterfly kisses are sweet to give and receive. Some people consider them the ones you blow off of your hand while others believe them to be very soft kisses or "rubs" (from the cheeks and lips and such) against the face or neck. They resemble the feeling of a butterfly's wings brushing
against your face.
But most of all, don't be afraid to talk to your partner and be sure to experiment and have fun! Things will come easier than you think!
Lightly nibble the bottom lip or neck
Kiss other parts of the body (some of these are FULL of nerves!) like the neck, ear, and chin
Enter a little tongue into the picture (remember, less is more!) and try some Frenching or playfully licking the perimeter of the lips, the neck, or from the neck to the lips
Be sure to use your hands, too! Run your fingers through your partner's hair or place your hands lovingly on the side of her face
Kiss your sweetheart someplace unexpected or from right out of the blue
Give Eskimo kisses (rub noses) for a sweet change of pace
Remember that you should always have fresh breath and clean teeth, too. Poor hygiene is a total turn-off!
As far as Frenching goes, keep in mind that it can be a hard kiss to master so you most likely won't be wonderful at it overnight but with practice and a patient partner, your skills will improve fairly quickly. First of all,
remember that less is more and 2 things can happen if you use your tongue too much; 1. Your tongue gets tired or 2. Your partner gets tired of your tongue. So, if you're, say, in a heavy make-out session, French kiss off and on for a minute or a minute and a half and then quit for a couple
minutes and bring your tongue back. You really just don't want things to get old. Don't deep-throat your lover, either. Most of the time you'll only use the tip to the middle of your tongue and it will extend to about the middle of your sweetheart's mouth. This way no one is strained or gagged and it's enjoyable for both parties. Move your tongue up and down, side to side, clockwise, counter-clockwise, where ever it feels best or play "tongue hockey" with your honey (not tonsil hockey!). Open your mouth a little wider than you would for a normal kiss but don't gape it. And be sure not to leave your mouths open and play with each other's tongues for too long of a time; trust me, it can feel weird. Sometimes surprise your mate and when she thinks you're going to French and begins to stick out her tongue, kiss her tongue instead. Also, don't
move your tongue around too fast in your better half's mouth. Keep things slow and sensual, at least at the beginning of each kissing session and/or until you are
better prepared to speed things up.
Butterfly kisses are sweet to give and receive. Some people consider them the ones you blow off of your hand while others believe them to be very soft kisses or "rubs" (from the cheeks and lips and such) against the face or neck. They resemble the feeling of a butterfly's wings brushing
against your face.
But most of all, don't be afraid to talk to your partner and be sure to experiment and have fun! Things will come easier than you think!
spice of life (for the bored)
Now, if you're bored and want to spice things up a little, here are a few suggestions:
Lightly nibble the bottom lip or neck
Kiss other parts of the body (some of these are FULL of nerves!) like the neck, ear, and chin
Enter a little tongue into the picture (remember, less is more!) and try some Frenching or playfully licking the perimeter of the lips, the neck, or from the neck to the lips
Be sure to use your hands, too! Run your fingers through your partner's hair or place your hands lovingly on the side of her face
Kiss your sweetheart someplace unexpected or from right out of the blue
Give Eskimo kisses (rub noses) for a sweet change of pace
Remember that you should always have fresh breath and clean teeth, too. Poor hygiene is a total turn-off!
As far as Frenching goes, keep in mind that it can be a hard kiss to master so you most likely won't be wonderful at it overnight but with practice and a patient partner, your skills will improve fairly quickly. First of all,
remember that less is more and 2 things can happen if you use your tongue too much; 1. Your tongue gets tired or 2. Your partner gets tired of your tongue. So, if you're, say, in a heavy make-out session, French kiss off and on for a minute or a minute and a half and then quit for a couple
minutes and bring your tongue back. You really just don't want things to get old. Don't deep-throat your lover, either. Most of the time you'll only use the tip to the middle of your tongue and it will extend to about the middle of your sweetheart's mouth. This way no one is strained or gagged and it's enjoyable for both parties. Move your tongue up and down, side to side, clockwise, counter-clockwise, where ever it feels best or play "tongue hockey" with your honey (not tonsil hockey!). Open your mouth a little wider than you would for a normal kiss but don't gape it. And be sure not to leave your mouths open and play with each other's tongues for too long of a time; trust me, it can feel weird. Sometimes surprise your mate and when she thinks you're going to French and begins to stick out her tongue, kiss her tongue instead. Also, don't
move your tongue around too fast in your better half's mouth. Keep things slow and sensual, at least at the beginning of each kissing session and/or until you are
better prepared to speed things up.
Butterfly kisses are sweet to give and receive. Some people consider them the ones you blow off of your hand while others believe them to be very soft kisses or "rubs" (from the cheeks and lips and such) against the face or neck. They resemble the feeling of a butterfly's wings brushing
against your face.
But most of all, don't be afraid to talk to your partner and be sure to experiment and have fun! Things will come easier than you think!
Lightly nibble the bottom lip or neck
Kiss other parts of the body (some of these are FULL of nerves!) like the neck, ear, and chin
Enter a little tongue into the picture (remember, less is more!) and try some Frenching or playfully licking the perimeter of the lips, the neck, or from the neck to the lips
Be sure to use your hands, too! Run your fingers through your partner's hair or place your hands lovingly on the side of her face
Kiss your sweetheart someplace unexpected or from right out of the blue
Give Eskimo kisses (rub noses) for a sweet change of pace
Remember that you should always have fresh breath and clean teeth, too. Poor hygiene is a total turn-off!
As far as Frenching goes, keep in mind that it can be a hard kiss to master so you most likely won't be wonderful at it overnight but with practice and a patient partner, your skills will improve fairly quickly. First of all,
remember that less is more and 2 things can happen if you use your tongue too much; 1. Your tongue gets tired or 2. Your partner gets tired of your tongue. So, if you're, say, in a heavy make-out session, French kiss off and on for a minute or a minute and a half and then quit for a couple
minutes and bring your tongue back. You really just don't want things to get old. Don't deep-throat your lover, either. Most of the time you'll only use the tip to the middle of your tongue and it will extend to about the middle of your sweetheart's mouth. This way no one is strained or gagged and it's enjoyable for both parties. Move your tongue up and down, side to side, clockwise, counter-clockwise, where ever it feels best or play "tongue hockey" with your honey (not tonsil hockey!). Open your mouth a little wider than you would for a normal kiss but don't gape it. And be sure not to leave your mouths open and play with each other's tongues for too long of a time; trust me, it can feel weird. Sometimes surprise your mate and when she thinks you're going to French and begins to stick out her tongue, kiss her tongue instead. Also, don't
move your tongue around too fast in your better half's mouth. Keep things slow and sensual, at least at the beginning of each kissing session and/or until you are
better prepared to speed things up.
Butterfly kisses are sweet to give and receive. Some people consider them the ones you blow off of your hand while others believe them to be very soft kisses or "rubs" (from the cheeks and lips and such) against the face or neck. They resemble the feeling of a butterfly's wings brushing
against your face.
But most of all, don't be afraid to talk to your partner and be sure to experiment and have fun! Things will come easier than you think!
hey
Kissing someone you have just started dating:
If this isn't your first date, chances are you have kissed before (if not, see the tips for kissing a crush), so a turn under the mistletoe shouldn't be that frightening. But that doesn't mean it isn't special. A mistletoe kiss with a new steady can be something you will never forget. For this reason, it should be a little different than your other kisses. Holding each other close is a definite must. Start kissing the same as you have in the past. Play with each others hair or run your fingers up and down one another's back. If you have never french kissed before, now may be a good first time. If you aren't ready to french kiss yet, try what we Canadians call a "Quebec kiss". This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the french kiss with only a little bit of tongue playing. If you aren't ready for that either, try spicing up the kiss with a little bit of fun, playfully tickle your partner to signal that it is over or end with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead.
Super Savvy Tip:
Stay in each other's arms even after the kiss is over and talk. Talk about the kiss and how nice it was, talk about the party and how fun it is, and then lean in for another quick smooch.
Kissing someone you have a relationship with:
It never gets boring kissing your steady but kissing under the mistletoe is always a little bit special. Since you are probably well acquainted with one another's kissing techniques, there isn't much extra advice you need. A holiday kiss is always nice if entered in to in the interest of fun, rather than passion. Remember you are at a party under mistletoe, not in a private place with the lights down low. Your kiss should take that in to account. French kissing is fine as long as you don't get carried away. Kissing on the neck or face is also nice. But don't paw each other and don't turn the mistletoe kiss in to a make out session. Kiss like you normally would but keep it lighthearted and fun. If you haven't french kissed before it may be fun to give it a try under the magic of the mistletoe. Whatever you do, make sure it is fun and make sure that you are ready to rejoin the party when it is over.
If this isn't your first date, chances are you have kissed before (if not, see the tips for kissing a crush), so a turn under the mistletoe shouldn't be that frightening. But that doesn't mean it isn't special. A mistletoe kiss with a new steady can be something you will never forget. For this reason, it should be a little different than your other kisses. Holding each other close is a definite must. Start kissing the same as you have in the past. Play with each others hair or run your fingers up and down one another's back. If you have never french kissed before, now may be a good first time. If you aren't ready to french kiss yet, try what we Canadians call a "Quebec kiss". This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the french kiss with only a little bit of tongue playing. If you aren't ready for that either, try spicing up the kiss with a little bit of fun, playfully tickle your partner to signal that it is over or end with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead.
Super Savvy Tip:
Stay in each other's arms even after the kiss is over and talk. Talk about the kiss and how nice it was, talk about the party and how fun it is, and then lean in for another quick smooch.
Kissing someone you have a relationship with:
It never gets boring kissing your steady but kissing under the mistletoe is always a little bit special. Since you are probably well acquainted with one another's kissing techniques, there isn't much extra advice you need. A holiday kiss is always nice if entered in to in the interest of fun, rather than passion. Remember you are at a party under mistletoe, not in a private place with the lights down low. Your kiss should take that in to account. French kissing is fine as long as you don't get carried away. Kissing on the neck or face is also nice. But don't paw each other and don't turn the mistletoe kiss in to a make out session. Kiss like you normally would but keep it lighthearted and fun. If you haven't french kissed before it may be fun to give it a try under the magic of the mistletoe. Whatever you do, make sure it is fun and make sure that you are ready to rejoin the party when it is over.
frenchie 2
An introduction to the seductive art of French Kissing.
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: N/A
Here's How:
1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: N/A
Here's How:
1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
crushie
Kissing someone you might like
(when you aren't quite sure):
This is an excellent chance to test the chemistry between you. The kiss you give in this situation should fall somewhere between what you'd give to a bud and what you would give to a full fledged crush. Think short and sweet with a hint of passion. Also, make sure that there is some other body contact. Putting your arms around each other is nice, but if it seems to be too much, holding hands works too. Whatever you do, do not venture in to the realm of french kissing, but opening your mouth ever so slightly adds an element of intimacy. This kiss should last more than a second but less than 15 seconds. Too long and you run the risk of sending an undeniable "I am in to you!" message. Too short and you may give the person an unintended brush off.
Super Savvy Tip:
If the kiss made you see stars, linger a while by holding hands or staying arm in arm, and smile. If the kiss made you feel silly, smile and say, "Thanks!", then head straight for your nearest friend.
Kissing someone you have a crush on
(when it is clear they are interested too):
This may very well be the most exciting type of kiss there is. It is so full of promise and good natured lusty feelings. You don't know this person well enough to love them yet, but you sure feel something so strong toward them that it makes you breathless. Fight that feeling. To make this kiss memorable you are going to have to breath. It is probably still too early to try french kissing, but making it a little wet won't hurt. Start with a gentle closed mouth peck and move on to something a little more inviting - open mouth but no tongue. Try to keep your lips soft, not too puckered, and make sure that your arms are around your partner. A couple of kisses in a row is a nice idea. Try not to let this kiss linger too long or you may find yourself making out. Making out with a crush too quickly has spelled doom to many could-have-been romances. Make sure the kiss has a definite end and that you both stay on the same planet as the rest of the party-goers.
Super Savvy Tip:
When the kiss is over, invite your crush to hang out with you a bit more. If there is dancing, suggest a turn on the floor. Or hold hands and join a group of people talking. Keep holding hands so people can see that, right now, you are "together".
(when you aren't quite sure):
This is an excellent chance to test the chemistry between you. The kiss you give in this situation should fall somewhere between what you'd give to a bud and what you would give to a full fledged crush. Think short and sweet with a hint of passion. Also, make sure that there is some other body contact. Putting your arms around each other is nice, but if it seems to be too much, holding hands works too. Whatever you do, do not venture in to the realm of french kissing, but opening your mouth ever so slightly adds an element of intimacy. This kiss should last more than a second but less than 15 seconds. Too long and you run the risk of sending an undeniable "I am in to you!" message. Too short and you may give the person an unintended brush off.
Super Savvy Tip:
If the kiss made you see stars, linger a while by holding hands or staying arm in arm, and smile. If the kiss made you feel silly, smile and say, "Thanks!", then head straight for your nearest friend.
Kissing someone you have a crush on
(when it is clear they are interested too):
This may very well be the most exciting type of kiss there is. It is so full of promise and good natured lusty feelings. You don't know this person well enough to love them yet, but you sure feel something so strong toward them that it makes you breathless. Fight that feeling. To make this kiss memorable you are going to have to breath. It is probably still too early to try french kissing, but making it a little wet won't hurt. Start with a gentle closed mouth peck and move on to something a little more inviting - open mouth but no tongue. Try to keep your lips soft, not too puckered, and make sure that your arms are around your partner. A couple of kisses in a row is a nice idea. Try not to let this kiss linger too long or you may find yourself making out. Making out with a crush too quickly has spelled doom to many could-have-been romances. Make sure the kiss has a definite end and that you both stay on the same planet as the rest of the party-goers.
Super Savvy Tip:
When the kiss is over, invite your crush to hang out with you a bit more. If there is dancing, suggest a turn on the floor. Or hold hands and join a group of people talking. Keep holding hands so people can see that, right now, you are "together".
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Pucker Up - It's Kissing Time!
Tips for kissing under the mistletoe that you can use all year round! More of this Feature
• Kissing Your Friend
• Kissing Your Crush
• How to French Kiss
• QUIZ:
Are you a good kisser?
Join the Discussion
• Teen Advice
• Teen Love & Dating
Related Resources
• How to French Kiss
• How to Fake Confidence
• How to Reject Nicely
• Falling in Love
• Is It In the Stars?
• Love & Dating Links
From Other Guides
• Kissing Links
• Origins of Mistletoe
Elsewhere on the Web
• Kissing Tips for Teens
• How to Kiss Great!
• The Right Way to Kiss
• Kissing Lessons
Kissing someone you have just started dating:
If this isn't your first date, chances are you have kissed before (if not, see the tips for kissing a crush), so a turn under the mistletoe shouldn't be that frightening. But that doesn't mean it isn't special. A mistletoe kiss with a new steady can be something you will never forget. For this reason, it should be a little different than your other kisses. Holding each other close is a definite must. Start kissing the same as you have in the past. Play with each others hair or run your fingers up and down one another's back. If you have never french kissed before, now may be a good first time. If you aren't ready to french kiss yet, try what we Canadians call a "Quebec kiss". This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the french kiss with only a little bit of tongue playing. If you aren't ready for that either, try spicing up the kiss with a little bit of fun, playfully tickle your partner to signal that it is over or end with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead.
Super Savvy Tip:
Stay in each other's arms even after the kiss is over and talk. Talk about the kiss and how nice it was, talk about the party and how fun it is, and then lean in for another quick smooch.
Kissing someone you have a relationship with:
It never gets boring kissing your steady but kissing under the mistletoe is always a little bit special. Since you are probably well acquainted with one another's kissing techniques, there isn't much extra advice you need. A holiday kiss is always nice if entered in to in the interest of fun, rather than passion. Remember you are at a party under mistletoe, not in a private place with the lights down low. Your kiss should take that in to account. French kissing is fine as long as you don't get carried away. Kissing on the neck or face is also nice. But don't paw each other and don't turn the mistletoe kiss in to a make out session. Kiss like you normally would but keep it lighthearted and fun. If you haven't french kissed before it may be fun to give it a try under the magic of the mistletoe. Whatever you do, make sure it is fun and make sure that you are ready to rejoin the party when it is over.
Super Savvy Tip:
If you are solid in the relationship ending the kiss with a whispered, "I love you!" or "I am sure glad you're mine!" can make the moment linger in both of your hearts.
Tips for kissing under the mistletoe that you can use all year round! More of this Feature
• Kissing Your Friend
• Kissing Your Crush
• How to French Kiss
• QUIZ:
Are you a good kisser?
Join the Discussion
• Teen Advice
• Teen Love & Dating
Related Resources
• How to French Kiss
• How to Fake Confidence
• How to Reject Nicely
• Falling in Love
• Is It In the Stars?
• Love & Dating Links
From Other Guides
• Kissing Links
• Origins of Mistletoe
Elsewhere on the Web
• Kissing Tips for Teens
• How to Kiss Great!
• The Right Way to Kiss
• Kissing Lessons
Kissing someone you have just started dating:
If this isn't your first date, chances are you have kissed before (if not, see the tips for kissing a crush), so a turn under the mistletoe shouldn't be that frightening. But that doesn't mean it isn't special. A mistletoe kiss with a new steady can be something you will never forget. For this reason, it should be a little different than your other kisses. Holding each other close is a definite must. Start kissing the same as you have in the past. Play with each others hair or run your fingers up and down one another's back. If you have never french kissed before, now may be a good first time. If you aren't ready to french kiss yet, try what we Canadians call a "Quebec kiss". This type of kiss is a shorter, dryer version of the french kiss with only a little bit of tongue playing. If you aren't ready for that either, try spicing up the kiss with a little bit of fun, playfully tickle your partner to signal that it is over or end with a gentle kiss on the nose or forehead.
Super Savvy Tip:
Stay in each other's arms even after the kiss is over and talk. Talk about the kiss and how nice it was, talk about the party and how fun it is, and then lean in for another quick smooch.
Kissing someone you have a relationship with:
It never gets boring kissing your steady but kissing under the mistletoe is always a little bit special. Since you are probably well acquainted with one another's kissing techniques, there isn't much extra advice you need. A holiday kiss is always nice if entered in to in the interest of fun, rather than passion. Remember you are at a party under mistletoe, not in a private place with the lights down low. Your kiss should take that in to account. French kissing is fine as long as you don't get carried away. Kissing on the neck or face is also nice. But don't paw each other and don't turn the mistletoe kiss in to a make out session. Kiss like you normally would but keep it lighthearted and fun. If you haven't french kissed before it may be fun to give it a try under the magic of the mistletoe. Whatever you do, make sure it is fun and make sure that you are ready to rejoin the party when it is over.
Super Savvy Tip:
If you are solid in the relationship ending the kiss with a whispered, "I love you!" or "I am sure glad you're mine!" can make the moment linger in both of your hearts.
thank the french
French Kissing tips
This is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more advanced techniques.
The basics
1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.
13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing
This is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more advanced techniques.
The basics
1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.
13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing
hey
This is having nice breath, no biting, or producing too much saliva, having moist lips, and not opening your mouth too wide. These may seem like small things, but if you're getting them right, your already a good kisser. Next is your hands, are you using them enough?? Try holding his face, around his waist, back, arms, hands anywhere that is comfortable and appropriate. Move your hands around aswell. When your kissing, start off with soft, sensual pecks, and then open your mouth slowly, and slip your tongue through, play with his tongue. Try to kiss slow it's more sexy.
again
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
kiss
Here are tips and advice on how to be a great kisser
so your kisses are unforgettable!
Whether you've never had your first kiss or
have kissed and been kissed a million times
before, you'll find out:
• How to make that first kiss special!
• How to hold that special someone when you're kissing!
• Special kisses (tips and advice)
• French kissing -- how to do it right!
Yes... here's all the kissing info you need!
How to kiss shyness goodbye!
We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way
it's so perfect, and the way it just happens.
But real life is different. You're with that
special someone at the movies. You want to
kiss. But does he? Is he shy?
Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss
him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or
maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the
one who's shy. That's why kissing games
are so popular.
Spin the bottle
The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other
kissing games are so popular is that they let
you kiss someone without having to admit
that you like the person you're kissing. You're
kissing because you have to.
Kissing games are also a good way to try
different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle,"
a group of guys and girls sit in a circle,
and take turns spinning a bottle. When the
bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's
pointing to.
But what if you're not playing a kissing game?
How can you tell he wants to kiss you? Here's how:
How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!
After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.
You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.
And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.
How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."
First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"
Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!
How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details!
Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
Kissing and health
Can you "catch something" by kissing?
Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to
a pretty serious sexually transmitted
disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been
found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it
could be transmitted by kissing someone who
has the disease, especially if you have any
cuts in your mouth.
There's no such thing as 100% safety. But
if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until
it's over. If you see he's got sores on his
mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have
cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses
your chance of passing on infection.
I don't want to make you paranoid, but just
to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing"
so keep that in mind.
Kissing and s-e-x
Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just
because you kiss a guy you have to do anything
more.
On the other hand, once you're kissing
passionatley, you might both feel like going further.
The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss
him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in
a movie theater or on your front porch, you know
it's not going to lead to sex right there!
On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when
your parents aren't home, there's not really anything
to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid.
I'm not trying to tell you how to run your life, just
telling you what's worked for me.
Practice makes perfect!
The only way to get good at kissing is to
practice. Have fun!
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so your kisses are unforgettable!
Whether you've never had your first kiss or
have kissed and been kissed a million times
before, you'll find out:
• How to make that first kiss special!
• How to hold that special someone when you're kissing!
• Special kisses (tips and advice)
• French kissing -- how to do it right!
Yes... here's all the kissing info you need!
How to kiss shyness goodbye!
We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way
it's so perfect, and the way it just happens.
But real life is different. You're with that
special someone at the movies. You want to
kiss. But does he? Is he shy?
Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss
him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or
maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the
one who's shy. That's why kissing games
are so popular.
Spin the bottle
The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other
kissing games are so popular is that they let
you kiss someone without having to admit
that you like the person you're kissing. You're
kissing because you have to.
Kissing games are also a good way to try
different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle,"
a group of guys and girls sit in a circle,
and take turns spinning a bottle. When the
bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's
pointing to.
But what if you're not playing a kissing game?
How can you tell he wants to kiss you? Here's how:
How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!
After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.
You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to
chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out
with you.
And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when
you're together? These are all signs that he likes
you and might want to kiss you.
How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."
First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"
Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!
How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details!
Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
Kissing and health
Can you "catch something" by kissing?
Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to
a pretty serious sexually transmitted
disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been
found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it
could be transmitted by kissing someone who
has the disease, especially if you have any
cuts in your mouth.
There's no such thing as 100% safety. But
if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until
it's over. If you see he's got sores on his
mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have
cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses
your chance of passing on infection.
I don't want to make you paranoid, but just
to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing"
so keep that in mind.
Kissing and s-e-x
Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just
because you kiss a guy you have to do anything
more.
On the other hand, once you're kissing
passionatley, you might both feel like going further.
The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss
him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in
a movie theater or on your front porch, you know
it's not going to lead to sex right there!
On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when
your parents aren't home, there's not really anything
to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid.
I'm not trying to tell you how to run your life, just
telling you what's worked for me.
Practice makes perfect!
The only way to get good at kissing is to
practice. Have fun!
Get the
"How to Kiss Great" guide
and find out ...
... plus ... Secrets of Flirting
You'll find out exactly how to get the boy you have
a secret crush on to go out with you!
Yes -- even if he's already got a girlfriend -- even if he's
older than you -- even if he doesn't even know you're alive --
here's exactly how to get him to like you -- and no one else!
You'll find out:
• How to get him to notice you -- without looking desperate!
• How to get him to call you and ask you out!
• How to ask him out so he won't say no!
• How to make him like you more than all the other girls
• How to catch any guy's attention -- anytime, anywhere!
• The right way to flirt
• The one thing you should never tell a guy!
• What to do if he's already got a girlfriend
• The 7 special words you should always say when you
give a guy your phone number
• How to be confident and relaxed around guys -- no matter
how shy you are!
Plus... you'll get lots of tips, tricks and techniques that most
girls don't find out until they're a lot older. Sure, some of the tricks
are a little unfair -- but, if other girls use them, why shouldn't you?
You keep dreaming about your secret crush asking you out.
And now, do something to make your dreams come true!
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SUPER SPECIAL - $20 (You get everything above plus "Shape Up!")
Send your name, address and money to:
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Nicholson Lane
P.O. Box 2245-NK
Kensington, MD 20891-2245
All prices already include shipping.
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Canadians: Prices in Canadian dollars are:
- Boys! - Can$15
- How to Kiss Great - Can$15
- SPECIAL (Boys, Kiss and FREE Gifts) - Can$25
- SUPER SPECIAL - Can$30
We'll send them airmail -- for fast delivery!
Other countries: Prices in U.S. dollars are:
- Boys! - US$15
- How to Kiss Great - US$15
- SPECIAL (Boys, Kiss and FREE Gifts) - US$20
- SUPER SPECIAL - US$25
Most banks should be able to exchange your country's money
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